Relationships flourish when both people are able to share their innermost feelings and thoughts about themselves and each other. That is why I value honesty more than anything in relationship. Being honest doesn’t mean the annulation of private space. Admitting that you have a secret but there is no way to reveal it is a deed of honesty to me. It is counted, yes. Next to it is be honest about your feeling. Whether you are sure or not about it, just tell me. Don’t make me blind guessing what’s on your mind or how you feel. Say what you mean and mean it.